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The strange and not-so-strange happenings in the life of me

Sunday, September 07, 2014

Giving Thanks

28th August 2014 : I have been nominated by Joyce Yoong to share 3 things that I am thankful for each day for five days, and in turn nominate 2 friends to carry on this chain of gratitude. Here is day 1 and day 2 of my gratitude challenge:
1. I am so blessed to have a loving husband BK Toh, who has given my life so much meaning and is ever-supportive of what I do. 
2. I am eternally grateful for my somewhat large family (in-laws included) whom I love dearly and keep close to my heart and who form such an important support system making my life a breeze.
3. I am so lucky to have a sister as awesome as Valerie Oh whom I get along so well with and who makes my workdays fun.
4. I thank God for giving me the opportunity to be a mum third time around and that this child will come into the world with so much love surrounding her.
5. I am so glad for newfound friends (you all know who you are) who are super-cool and like-minded in our parenting outlook, filling my life with so much colour in the months leading up to my confinement!
6. I am grateful everyday for my 2 rascals for teaching me so much in life and loving me unconditionally. Without them, my life would not be complete.

I am nominating, to this gratitude challenge, my amazing and ever-young mummy, Nancy Chan, because I am who I am because of you (though I'm not sure if you will take up the challenge), and my newfound friend Li-Hsian Choo because I am simply in awe of you mothers of multiples!


30th August 2014 : Day 3 of 5-day gratitude challenge.
1. I love where I live and am extremely lucky that my in-laws have welcomed us into their home. Just by getting groceries down the road, I somehow bumped into & reconnected with 2 very old, long-lost friends in a span of half an hour.
2. I am thankful to have a helper whom we have known for 14 years & has been with me since 2006. She also loves my kids and cooks very well.
3. I'm glad that my kids have educators who are extremely dedicated & passionate about what they do.

Today, I nominate Julie Hui and Yanesly Widjaja to accept this gratitude challenge as I'm proud of their commitment to education and they have come a long way in their business so am sure they have lots to share.


31st August 2014 : Day 4 of my 5-day gratitude challenge
1. I am grateful for having grown up in my beautiful & beloved country. Though it's not perfect in many ways, it's still "tanahairku" - I would not hope to grow old anywhere else. Selamat Hari Kebangsaan, Malaysia!
2. I am thankful for the fantastically fun-filled day spent with awesome friends. Our kids are so lucky!
3. I always look forward to my yoga practice at Prana Yoga & the wonderful yoga teachers there. Thanks to Angeline LiewRaymond Lim & Lily Yap.

Today I nominate the incredibly articulate Alison Lee to this challenge because she is my oldest friend (we've known each other for 34 years) & I'm a big fan of her work.


1st September 2014 : Day 5 of my 5-day gratitude challenge (Already?) :-
1. I'm ever thankful and grateful for God's presence in my life. I'm so blessed with love all around me, it's hard not to be happy. And when things get a bit rough, He guides my path & all is well again.
2. I'm grateful for being able to hold a flexible job, one that allows me to attend to my family when necessary & one that I love.
3. I am so lucky to have access to abundant and glorious food in KL... Yum! (Yes, I absolutely MUST dedicate one whole gratitude note to food!)

Today I nominate Eileen Yoon and Diana Diana Lee Wright to take up this gratitude challenge and post 3 things they are grateful for, for the next 5 days and in turn, nominating 2 other people each day to pass on their gratitude notes. Eileen Yoon, because she's an amazing mum and wife to an extremely lovable family, and Diana Lee Wright, because I like the thought-provoking notes that she posts on FB.

Sunday, September 22, 2013

Waiting to exhale



Me : Nat, Adam's almost 4 years old and he still can't read. You could read even before you were his age. Can you teach him? If not he will become "bodoh-bodoh" (excuse the derogatory term).

Nat : Me? I can't do that? It's inside of me. Why don't you take him to a doctor?

Me : ???!!!  Of course you can. Just show him how you do it and he will learn.

Nat : Ok. Adam, look at me. Breathe in * inhales deeply * and breathe out * exhales *.

Adam proceeds to imitate her.

Nat : Good. Do it again. Breathe in, breathe out. Good! One last time. Breathe in, breathe out.

Once again, Adam obediently does as he is told. 

Nat : Ok. Do this everyday.

Me : ???!!! Wondering how in the world this will help him recognise words before it dawned upon me....  NAT, I asked you to teach him how to READ, not teach him how to BREATHE!

Nat : Ohhh.....

Sunday, May 26, 2013

Happy Wednesday, Mama!

These were waiting for me when I returned home from mass on the morning of Sunday 12 May 2013. Bless my kids! 


Skinny fella on the left is actually Papa. And he's exercising. Hmm... could she be hinting at something? I asked her who the littlest kid at the bottom was and she said it's a little boy who is her "secret friend". ???


Adam's into drawing a lot more these days and many a time, his main subject is a spider with many many legs. Am not sure if it's trying to say "I love you" or "I owe you". Hahaha! And the little thing dangling from one of its legs is a car. What else!

As for the title, that's what he wished me on Mother's Day. Happy Wednesday too, baby!

The functional creativity of a 3.5 year old



A fully functional gift from Adam to me. I thanked him and put it away but when I proceeded to hang a regular hand towel on the hook, he insisted I use the one he made out of an old nappy and his sister's claw hair fastener.

Never suspected he had it in him to make something totally usable at his age. Such consideration too!
Goes to show we should never underestimate our little ones.

Proud of you, my dear son!